There is this girl who was my girlfriend 6 months ago. We broke up, and I have decided I am not ready for a girlfriend. However, a couple of days a go we agreed to have sex this weekend. She would also, invite some girls to join. However, for some reason she had the thought we would get back together as girlfriend/boyfriend. I didn't know that is what she thought. So she is not sure if she what she wants to do. What should I do?
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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Umm, she's inviting you to have a orgy with her and some other girls and your worried that she wants to be your girlfriend? gtfocrossboss said:
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just be honest and don't be a needly little dude.
'Look, I'd love to hang out with you again, but I'm not ready for another relationship with you at this time.'
will you possibly miss out on an orgy? Maybe, but improve your game and someday you wouldnt be needing her around to make an orgy happen.
Moral of the story, man up, and don't break your principles for anyone, not even her.
'Look, I'd love to hang out with you again, but I'm not ready for another relationship with you at this time.'
will you possibly miss out on an orgy? Maybe, but improve your game and someday you wouldnt be needing her around to make an orgy happen.
Moral of the story, man up, and don't break your principles for anyone, not even her.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.