There is this girl who was my girlfriend 6 months ago. We broke up, and I have decided I am not ready for a girlfriend. However, a couple of days a go we agreed to have sex this weekend. She would also, invite some girls to join. However, for some reason she had the thought we would get back together as girlfriend/boyfriend. I didn't know that is what she thought. So she is not sure if she what she wants to do. What should I do?
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Umm, she's inviting you to have a orgy with her and some other girls and your worried that she wants to be your girlfriend? gtfocrossboss said:
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just be honest and don't be a needly little dude.
'Look, I'd love to hang out with you again, but I'm not ready for another relationship with you at this time.'
will you possibly miss out on an orgy? Maybe, but improve your game and someday you wouldnt be needing her around to make an orgy happen.
Moral of the story, man up, and don't break your principles for anyone, not even her.
'Look, I'd love to hang out with you again, but I'm not ready for another relationship with you at this time.'
will you possibly miss out on an orgy? Maybe, but improve your game and someday you wouldnt be needing her around to make an orgy happen.
Moral of the story, man up, and don't break your principles for anyone, not even her.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.