Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting Laid as a Result of Going to Pool Parties

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Does anyone go to Disneyworld to try to pick up girls? It doesn't have to be the theme park side, but the hotel / swimming pool side.

Is Disneyworld only mom, dad, and kids, or are there singles moms with kids and even just groups of girls going?
Theme parks are mostly families. Yes, there are single girls but its the minority. You can shoot your shot if you are already there anyway but I wouldnt advise going to a theme park just to pick up girls.
There have been stories in the media about childless Millennials going to Disney World (and likely Disneyland).


It is unlikely that the hotel pools near Disney World or Disneyland have a good scene for seduction. The theme parks themselves are likely not good for approaching either. The best case scenario is that it might be possible for a single dad to hit on a single mom at a hotel pool near a Disney theme park or at the theme park itself.

Think about your local Chuck E. Cheese pizza location. A single dad could pick up single moms at Chuck E. Cheese anywhere. Chuck E. Cheese locations are typically in the suburbs with families with children under 18 being the nearby demographic.

A childless man wouldn't go to Chuck E. Cheese to pick up women, especially childless women. It might be possible for a childless man to take his nephew or niece to Chuck E. Cheese and he might pick up a single mom there, but that's also an improbable event.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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There have been stories in the media about childless Millennials going to Disney World (and likely Disneyland).
Yeah, I guess its becoming a thing more and more often. They call themselves "Disney Adults" or something.

A few years ago I used to love travel and went to the parks often (Disney and Universal) so I pretty much was one of them in practice. Im not big on travel these days but I might circle back to it one day.
 

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There's a guy over on the reddit seduction sub who posts lots of lay reports and his main thing seems to be to pull at these pool parties in Vegas clubs. He's apparently in amazing shape, decent looking, and tends to bang the girls who open him (or are very receptive to his opener) who are usually in Vegas for the weekend or whatever. I think he does PUA coaching now, although i've already told you everything that he could tell you for free lol (get in amazing shape, be kinda good looking, and hit on girls. Bang the ones who like you back)
What are his usual starter lines?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/ppph2d
https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/pdfiep
https://www.reddit.com/r/AsianMasculinity/comments/v2f2sm
These aren't the best ones but that's him. The FR's I was thinking of were ones where he was in the pool, girls come up to him telling him how hot he is and rubbing his abs etc, and then he pulls them. He of course will say it was his game that made her approach him and let him smash, and not because she liked what she saw ;) (hence he's now a PUA coach)
He is doing these in Las Vegas, likely at the pool parties off the Las Vegas Strip. That is an accomplishment, but that's a different than pool parties at dayclubs attached to bars in other cities where the audience is primarily locals in that city.
 

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Since this is at a hotel and has an attached bar, I could imagine this place having a nightlife vibe.

I am curious about the attendees at these pool parties at the Marriott Marquis Houston. Are they mainly Houston area locals or tourists?
I’ve never been but I heard it’s a mixture of both.
 

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I’m looking forward to attending the Marriotts pool parties this summer in Houston.
I’ve never been but I heard it’s a mixture of both.
This is close to the type of location I had in mind with the first post. Dallas has numerous pool party spots have dayclub type vibes. Some of these are at hotels but some are at not at hotels.

Houston likely has a similar mixture.

Houston isn't far from the actual beach, but the Gulf of Mexico beaches close to Houston do not have a great reputation.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Is anyone pulling at pool parties this summer?

Do you think that someone needs to have a 'Chad' physique to pull at pool parties?

Remember that I'm talking about larger pool parties, often with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending. Sure, there may be 2-4 sets of people who know each other. It's like a nightclub type vibe during the day. In my experience, these type of pool parties tend to be bigger sausage fests and don't usually live up to the hype as a pickup option.
 

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Is anyone pulling at pool parties this summer?

Do you think that someone needs to have a 'Chad' physique to pull at pool parties?

Remember that I'm talking about larger pool parties, often with DJs connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) with hundreds of semi-strangers attending. Sure, there may be 2-4 sets of people who know each other. It's like a nightclub type vibe during the day. In my experience, these type of pool parties tend to be bigger sausage fests and don't usually live up to the hype as a pickup option.
I live in south of Spain and there is a culture for beaches and pools for like 6 months a year

if you have anything more than a small belly, you are f8cked … unless ofc you are a guy who spends like crazy left and right

but overall, the better the body the better results you will have

if you really want to have solid results you need to be shredded

If you are not like that, better to go to places where you have to wear clothes
 

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overall, the better the body the better results you will have

if you really want to have solid results you need to be shredded

If you are not like that, better to go to places where you have to wear clothes
General pool parties that are connected to a business (bar/restaurant, hotel) are best for men with top tier physiques.

The same could be said for the beach.

The normie at a pool party at a day club is an invisible guy getting drunk.

Most pool parties at bars/restaurants have terrible ratios too, which makes being 'Chad' even more relevant.
 

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I never swim at public pools but I have swam at friends houses when they had pool parties and had some success.
 

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I never swim at public pools but I have swam at friends houses when they had pool parties and had some success.
The pool parties at apartment complexes and the houses of friends are different than pool parties in public spaces with hundreds of strangers/semi-strangers attending.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I never swim at public pools but I have swam at friends houses when they had pool parties and had some success.
The pool parties at apartment complexes and the houses of friends are different than pool parties in public spaces with hundreds of strangers/semi-strangers attending.
The pool parties that @Robert28 is describing are more social circle oriented than pickup of strangers oriented.

I have been noticing women are wearing G strings that show off their butt cheeks more this summer at basic apartment complex pools. I could understand women wearing G strings to impress men at pool parties with a nightlife venue type vibe but it is stranger to me why they would do that at a random apartment complex without a DJ, music, and alcohol sales.
 

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Yes, they could do it for Instagram. I would think women would do that social media whorring more at the pool parties at dayclub type venues than a residential apartment complex pool.
 

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Yes, they could do it for Instagram. I would think women would do that social media whorring more at the pool parties at dayclub type venues than a residential apartment complex pool.
Don't underestimate their vanity and their need for validation in the form of likes and thirsty comments etc! :)
The young ones I know are taking endless pics any time they're half naked. Doesn't need to be a party or a place where men are etc.
 

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Don't underestimate their vanity and their need for validation in the form of likes and thirsty comments etc! :)
The young ones I know are taking endless pics any time they're half naked. Doesn't need to be a party or a place where men are etc.
Plenty of women take bikini pics and post them on Instagram. That's a common behavior for women who aren't even major thots.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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