Man, I went to this party tonight that my friend was having and damn was it good. The first parts of the party were okay, when we were swimming and sh*t. But the best part of the party was when we were dancing. That sh*t was crazy everyone was grinding and having a good time. It felt like a club down there because of the lighting and the sound system, it was awesome. And I mean EVERYONE was grinding, I even saw my friend who's usually nervous around chicks grinding on this one chick. There was this little white dude(Probably the only white guy there) in 8th grade who was grinding this one chick to hell. The best part was when little white dude stopped grinding her and let me grind her. I grinded her and it was like the best thing ever. Haha, dude must've hated seeing his sister get grinded by a bunch of guys. That was my first time grinding and now I know why people like doing it so much. I even saw my bro grinding a girl. It was some fun sh*t and I definitely want to do that again with other girls. So how do I get invited to more parties? Also, if this is a precursor to how homecoming is going to be, I'm definitely excited.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Getting invited to more parties?
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Kev07
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You can get the same experience at a school dance or any mixers around.
Otherwise, the only way to get invited to parties is knowing the "popular" kids, or throwing parties of your own, then people that you invited will invite you to their parties.
Otherwise, the only way to get invited to parties is knowing the "popular" kids, or throwing parties of your own, then people that you invited will invite you to their parties.
smooth guy
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Get to know more people. Here's where "getting along with everyone" that I told you in your other thread comes in handy 
throw a party of your own, dont have a house then rent a room at a hotel and take your **** over there and get krunk, Invite some hotties set some music up couple cases of beer let yourself be known for beeing a party guy and people will call you when there haveing partys.