"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting invited to more parties?

ElStud

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Man, I went to this party tonight that my friend was having and damn was it good. The first parts of the party were okay, when we were swimming and sh*t. But the best part of the party was when we were dancing. That sh*t was crazy everyone was grinding and having a good time. It felt like a club down there because of the lighting and the sound system, it was awesome. And I mean EVERYONE was grinding, I even saw my friend who's usually nervous around chicks grinding on this one chick. There was this little white dude(Probably the only white guy there) in 8th grade who was grinding this one chick to hell. The best part was when little white dude stopped grinding her and let me grind her. I grinded her and it was like the best thing ever. Haha, dude must've hated seeing his sister get grinded by a bunch of guys. That was my first time grinding and now I know why people like doing it so much. I even saw my bro grinding a girl. It was some fun sh*t and I definitely want to do that again with other girls. So how do I get invited to more parties? Also, if this is a precursor to how homecoming is going to be, I'm definitely excited.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Kev07

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You can get the same experience at a school dance or any mixers around.

Otherwise, the only way to get invited to parties is knowing the "popular" kids, or throwing parties of your own, then people that you invited will invite you to their parties.
 

smooth guy

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Get to know more people. Here's where "getting along with everyone" that I told you in your other thread comes in handy :)
 

frisco

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throw a party of your own, dont have a house then rent a room at a hotel and take your **** over there and get krunk, Invite some hotties set some music up couple cases of beer let yourself be known for beeing a party guy and people will call you when there haveing partys.
 
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