Man, I went to this party tonight that my friend was having and damn was it good. The first parts of the party were okay, when we were swimming and sh*t. But the best part of the party was when we were dancing. That sh*t was crazy everyone was grinding and having a good time. It felt like a club down there because of the lighting and the sound system, it was awesome. And I mean EVERYONE was grinding, I even saw my friend who's usually nervous around chicks grinding on this one chick. There was this little white dude(Probably the only white guy there) in 8th grade who was grinding this one chick to hell. The best part was when little white dude stopped grinding her and let me grind her. I grinded her and it was like the best thing ever. Haha, dude must've hated seeing his sister get grinded by a bunch of guys. That was my first time grinding and now I know why people like doing it so much. I even saw my bro grinding a girl. It was some fun sh*t and I definitely want to do that again with other girls. So how do I get invited to more parties? Also, if this is a precursor to how homecoming is going to be, I'm definitely excited.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Getting invited to more parties?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Kev07
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You can get the same experience at a school dance or any mixers around.
Otherwise, the only way to get invited to parties is knowing the "popular" kids, or throwing parties of your own, then people that you invited will invite you to their parties.
Otherwise, the only way to get invited to parties is knowing the "popular" kids, or throwing parties of your own, then people that you invited will invite you to their parties.
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Get to know more people. Here's where "getting along with everyone" that I told you in your other thread comes in handy 
throw a party of your own, dont have a house then rent a room at a hotel and take your **** over there and get krunk, Invite some hotties set some music up couple cases of beer let yourself be known for beeing a party guy and people will call you when there haveing partys.