“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting into the the boyfriend/girlfriend stage after the first date

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Alright, there has been this girl that I have been going after for quite sometime and I finally got her to go out on a date with me last night. I'd tried a few times previously but something always came up for her and she always had to cancel. Anyways the date went well and I worked up the nerve to take her hand 2/3 of the way through and movie and didn't let go :-D until the end of the movie.

The problem is that I hardly ever see her at school much less talk to her. I meet her last school year and we have keep in touch over AIM, a few quick chats at school, and more recently a few phone calls.

So now I want to continue the relationship and get on that second date asap. I'm going to call her up tonight. But what I was wondering is how long do it take before she starts acknologing me as her boyfriend? I know it's different for each person but what would you say would be the crossing point? Making out for the first time?



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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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She'll bring up the conversation about being in an exclusive relationship. But... she might not, some many girls I know in high school might not. I personally wouldn't bring it up.
 
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Originally posted by crunchtime
She'll bring up the conversation about being in an exclusive relationship. But... she might not, some many girls I know in high school might not. I personally wouldn't bring it up.
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Personally, I've never heard of a high school girl I know do that. I will just wait it out and hopefully everything will fall into place a couple dates from now.
 
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Originally posted by RaMar
Personally, I've never heard of a high school girl I know do that.
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Do what? My current g/f asked me about "us" after I had sex with her. Although that was kind of expected...
 
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Originally posted by crunchtime
Do what? My current g/f asked me about "us" after I had sex with her. Although that was kind of expected...
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sex is a long way away for me. And I'd hope that after f***ing her she would consider you to be her boyfriend, unless maybe if it was a one night stand kind of thing.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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WHAT A B!TCH!:mad: First date and you already wann get locked up?
 
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Originally posted by THA REALNESS
WHAT A B!TCH!:mad: First date and you already wann get locked up?
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yeah, I'm pretty sure I do. At least to the girlfriend-boyfriend status.
 
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Realness, its not like he's getting married. BF/GF is a little overblown in high school, if stuff doesn't work out then ohwell, you break up.
 
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Originally posted by Escalade
Realness, its not like he's getting married. BF/GF is a little overblown in high school, if stuff doesn't work out then ohwell, you break up.
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Exactly
 
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