"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting in trouble at the club

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Have you ever gotten in trouble at the club for approaching a girl with a BF? I went to a club last night and it was a sausage fest. Most girls have a guy next to her.

I don't really want any trouble because I feel that getting into a conflict over a girl is just not worth it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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david90 said:
Have you ever gotten in trouble at the club for approaching a girl with a BF? I went to a club last night and it was a sausage fest. Most girls have a guy next to her.

I don't really want any trouble because I feel that getting into a conflict over a girl is just not worth it.
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This is just an excuse... if the guy gets mad big deal..... there are huge bouncers at any good club to protect you. and that will probably never be needed anyway.
 
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How do you know it's her BF and not some chump friend that tagged along?

That's right. you don't. So go and find out.
 
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id be like "yo BF, get another girl bro!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Do you guys ever get into a conflict when approach in general due to a BF? I'm not talking about clubs anymore, i'm talking about in public.
 
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A typical scenario even if I go in and I don't engage the guys first is one might try to get rid of me and by then the group is already engagged and will ignore him ...sometimes his own girl will even scold him for it.

Other times when it's just one guy sometimes they will come up and make a weird face or something because the girls often get away from the guys for a few minutes so there is a better chance of getting approached. Don;t eject when the guys come up. The bouncers are paid to protect you even if something did go down and 99 times out of 100 times it won't.

If you are really worried then lear more on the side of just fun conversation than something that will really fly into the radar of triggering the guy's anxiety for a few days until you get used to the situation. Don't even try to flirt, just go in and have a fun (not too logical or situational) conversation. Try that 20 times. Then do whatever it is you really want to do.

It's the same in malls, you will be sarging a girl and then some guy appears out of nowhere. Hell it's better to approach with him already there than to have him pop out of the shadows anyway ha ha

Dave your location isn't listed. Maybe finding a local wing is a good idea too for someone else to demonstrate it's OK for you.
 
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