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StormRock
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What excersices can I do at home to get into shape. I don't have any equipment or gym acess!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Why do you want to look so skinny and weak?Originally posted by MrWilly
I dont ever goto the gym, ever.
I run 5miles twice a week, cycle 5miles once a week, and swim for 30-45mins twice a week first thing in the monring.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Good question!. The answer is this, I plan in a year or so to join the Royal Marines, and as such, my endurance trianing must be VERY good. As such, i run, cycle and swim a lot, boosting my VO2max. The upper body stuff i do do (not as much as cardio vasc stuf) & the swimming has given me a nicely toned chest, which I like. It is by no means big, but, this would mean weight, a loss of my endurance (although a big increase in strength).Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Why do you want to look so skinny and weak?
Hit the gym and build a respectable physique instead of going for the "long distance runner's" look.
Who is to say what is a respectable pysique? To each his own.Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Why do you want to look so skinny and weak?
Hit the gym and build a respectable physique instead of going for the "long distance runner's" look.
Me.Originally posted by Templeton
Who is to say what is a respectable pysique?
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You are a freakin idiot. I'm sure if it were up to you everyone would walk around looking like the incredible hulk, but people have different opinions and you can't say what's better or worse for a fact so stop trying. Is it that hard for you to understand that not everyone wants to look like that? And dont say it's about 'not wanting to put in the effort to get big' If anybody thinks that is actually the reason for not getting big then you have lifted yourself retarded.Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Me.
How many times have you played college hockey and professional lacrosse?Originally posted by atomsk
You are a freakin idiot. I'm sure if it were up to you everyone would walk around looking like the incredible hulk, but people have different opinions and you can't say what's better or worse for a fact so stop trying. Is it that hard for you to understand that not everyone wants to look like that? And dont say it's about 'not wanting to put in the effort to get big' If anybody thinks that is actually the reason for not getting big then you have lifted yourself retarded.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Is that all you can say? As I wrote in my last post, that is the textbook answer from all you idiots. If you read it, it says that people don't all want the same thing. I have actually been bulking for a while now and will continue do to so. Just because I like it, doesnt mean everybody has to.Originally posted by Soshyopathe
You don't want to get big because you don't want to put in the effort. It's easier to have a scrawny runner's body.