Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting in sahpe w/out going to gym or equipment?

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What excersices can I do at home to get into shape. I don't have any equipment or gym acess!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrWilly

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I dont ever goto the gym, ever.

I run 5miles twice a week, cycle 5miles once a week, and swim for 30-45mins twice a week first thing in the monring.

Get yourself a bench, and some weights (only cost you about £65 for both brand new), pressups, situps, crunches, pull ups etc etc.

Very little you really need to goto a gym for mate!
 

wheelin&dealin

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Originally posted by MrWilly
I dont ever goto the gym, ever.

I run 5miles twice a week, cycle 5miles once a week, and swim for 30-45mins twice a week first thing in the monring.

Why do you want to look so skinny and weak?

Hit the gym and build a respectable physique instead of going for the "long distance runner's" look.
 

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Do push-ups, and vary your hand positions every few days (regular width, narrow width, wide width)

Do squats.

It's great if you get a pull-up bar.

Do lunges.

Do situps.

You can get two chairs/tables/whatever together and do dips.

Sometimes I do a handstand against a wall, and lower myself, then raise.

These are all I can think of now.

Challenge yourself with these exercises just as you would with weights.

Also, please please please take care to do them right.

Quality over quality. Do them nice and slow, no rush.

Do a few sets of each if you wanna feel like Superman.

Hope this helps.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Why do you want to look so skinny and weak?

Hit the gym and build a respectable physique instead of going for the "long distance runner's" look.
Good question!. The answer is this, I plan in a year or so to join the Royal Marines, and as such, my endurance trianing must be VERY good. As such, i run, cycle and swim a lot, boosting my VO2max. The upper body stuff i do do (not as much as cardio vasc stuf) & the swimming has given me a nicely toned chest, which I like. It is by no means big, but, this would mean weight, a loss of my endurance (although a big increase in strength).

Basicly, training for joining up mate :)
 

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Why join the marines? Join the army for two years and then trial for the SAS, you sound like you've got the fitness level for it.
 

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Royals mate!

Not to keen on the Army (although I have applied to join the Army Officer Training Corps in sept). RM you can be jump trained (as per Paras), also, do the amphibius assualt also, a lot of varied roles.

Ideally, i'd like to join the RM, do the Mountain Leaders, and then possibly trial for SB selection after 3yrs.

Just always had a passion for the RM really, a few people i know have been in, and I jus want the Green Beret! :D
 

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Why do you want to look so skinny and weak?

Hit the gym and build a respectable physique instead of going for the "long distance runner's" look.
Who is to say what is a respectable pysique? To each his own.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Originally posted by wheelin&dealin
Me.
You are a freakin idiot. I'm sure if it were up to you everyone would walk around looking like the incredible hulk, but people have different opinions and you can't say what's better or worse for a fact so stop trying. Is it that hard for you to understand that not everyone wants to look like that? And dont say it's about 'not wanting to put in the effort to get big' If anybody thinks that is actually the reason for not getting big then you have lifted yourself retarded.
 

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Originally posted by atomsk
You are a freakin idiot. I'm sure if it were up to you everyone would walk around looking like the incredible hulk, but people have different opinions and you can't say what's better or worse for a fact so stop trying. Is it that hard for you to understand that not everyone wants to look like that? And dont say it's about 'not wanting to put in the effort to get big' If anybody thinks that is actually the reason for not getting big then you have lifted yourself retarded.
How many times have you played college hockey and professional lacrosse?
 

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You don't want to get big because you don't want to put in the effort. It's easier to have a scrawny runner's body.
 

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StormRock

If you mean getting into shape as in cutting down on weight. It's highly possible. However, If you want to get in shape by bulking up then YOU NEED WEIGHTS. LIFT FREE WEIGHTS. You won't gain much without em. Plain and simple. Working out at home without equipment: Quickfire laid it out perfectly.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Soshyopathe
You don't want to get big because you don't want to put in the effort. It's easier to have a scrawny runner's body.
Is that all you can say? As I wrote in my last post, that is the textbook answer from all you idiots. If you read it, it says that people don't all want the same thing. I have actually been bulking for a while now and will continue do to so. Just because I like it, doesnt mean everybody has to.

God, will you two just listen to yourself? Do you have any idea how retarded you sound?
 
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