"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting her email or number using facebook

Tear Gas

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zinc64 said:
Girl view guys as creeps who randomly message them on facebook. You can still pull it off, though. But to do it in person is better.
exactly..even if she thinks you're hot, any quality non-slutty/desperate girl is not gonna meet up with some random guy off the internet, esp if she's never met you before. Girls are dumb like that, they don't want to feel like a ***** by talking to random dudes. They want to meet you in person so their self-conscious doesn't feel guilty for talking to you. You're much better off talking to them in person, getting digits> date etc..

Now, if you want to bang some slutty *****es, go right ahead, but i don't recommend it..I mean, girls are everywhere, just go out and talk to them. They like getting approached and are friendly most of the time.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Tear Gas said:
exactly..even if she thinks you're hot, any quality non-slutty/desperate girl is not gonna meet up with some random guy off the internet, esp if she's never met you before. Girls are dumb like that, they don't want to feel like a ***** by talking to random dudes. They want to meet you in person so their self-conscious doesn't feel guilty for talking to you. You're much better off talking to them in person, getting digits> date etc..

Now, if you want to bang some slutty *****es, go right ahead, but i don't recommend it..I mean, girls are everywhere, just go out and talk to them. They like getting approached and are friendly most of the time.

yeah if you want to date someone from the internet then use a dating website. I mean that is why those women are on those sites. Facebook is more for keeping in touch with people you already know, not for meeting new people.
 

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Thanks for the *cough* advice...
Oh and thanks for *ah hem* reading previous posts...
 

ezily

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Eiljwa said:
Thanks for the *cough* advice...
Oh and thanks for *ah hem* reading previous posts...
well I guess our whole point was not to do this. Don't try and get numbers and emails from facebook. It makes you seem desperate and creepy, especially if you don't know them very well. Sorry it wasn't what you wanted to hear. I mean what would you think if some girl you barely knew, and let's say her picture doesn't flatter you, just randomly messaged you and wanted your number? And remember girls aren't quite as superficial as guys (a really good personality and offset some bad looks). So my point (and everyone else's) is to just meet girls in person and get their phone number or email from them directly.
 
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