Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting her email or number using facebook

Tear Gas

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zinc64 said:
Girl view guys as creeps who randomly message them on facebook. You can still pull it off, though. But to do it in person is better.
exactly..even if she thinks you're hot, any quality non-slutty/desperate girl is not gonna meet up with some random guy off the internet, esp if she's never met you before. Girls are dumb like that, they don't want to feel like a ***** by talking to random dudes. They want to meet you in person so their self-conscious doesn't feel guilty for talking to you. You're much better off talking to them in person, getting digits> date etc..

Now, if you want to bang some slutty *****es, go right ahead, but i don't recommend it..I mean, girls are everywhere, just go out and talk to them. They like getting approached and are friendly most of the time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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ezily

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Tear Gas said:
exactly..even if she thinks you're hot, any quality non-slutty/desperate girl is not gonna meet up with some random guy off the internet, esp if she's never met you before. Girls are dumb like that, they don't want to feel like a ***** by talking to random dudes. They want to meet you in person so their self-conscious doesn't feel guilty for talking to you. You're much better off talking to them in person, getting digits> date etc..

Now, if you want to bang some slutty *****es, go right ahead, but i don't recommend it..I mean, girls are everywhere, just go out and talk to them. They like getting approached and are friendly most of the time.

yeah if you want to date someone from the internet then use a dating website. I mean that is why those women are on those sites. Facebook is more for keeping in touch with people you already know, not for meeting new people.
 

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Thanks for the *cough* advice...
Oh and thanks for *ah hem* reading previous posts...
 

ezily

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Eiljwa said:
Thanks for the *cough* advice...
Oh and thanks for *ah hem* reading previous posts...
well I guess our whole point was not to do this. Don't try and get numbers and emails from facebook. It makes you seem desperate and creepy, especially if you don't know them very well. Sorry it wasn't what you wanted to hear. I mean what would you think if some girl you barely knew, and let's say her picture doesn't flatter you, just randomly messaged you and wanted your number? And remember girls aren't quite as superficial as guys (a really good personality and offset some bad looks). So my point (and everyone else's) is to just meet girls in person and get their phone number or email from them directly.
 
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