Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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crossboss

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I was wondering. Since, I am not a very popular guy, but would like to improve.
How would I find, a good wingman, or a free coach, or somebody decent to improve with girls.

I try to make friends, with cool guys, that might help me with girls, but it hasn't been very successful. If I, try and get friends that are afc's, they're help isn't very good.

I am looking for either a very attractive female, or a duan juan for one on one coaching. I live in ann arbor, and I'd prefer to find someone there. It is hard, when you don't live in a big city. I'd prefer, to make it twice, a week sessions, for low cost.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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squirrels

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Dude, do not waste your money on "coaching".

Just go out and talk to women. You will learn more in ONE NIGHT of talking to women than you will in a MONTH of "coaching".

Everything I have ever posted on this forum comes from personal experience, and most of it comes after ONE NIGHT when something happened that made me realize an important aspect of "the game".

Man up, grab your balls, accept you're gonna get rejected a little until you get it right, then go out there and start learning by trial-and-error.
 

Ease

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Ill tell you what i think are important:

Testostorone (be masculine)
Having experiences in life (travel, work, money, sports, hobbies, girls etc)
Being able to talk about your experiences and tell stories.

When was the last time you saw a guy have these things and not be a cool guy?
 
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