"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I was wondering. Since, I am not a very popular guy, but would like to improve.
How would I find, a good wingman, or a free coach, or somebody decent to improve with girls.

I try to make friends, with cool guys, that might help me with girls, but it hasn't been very successful. If I, try and get friends that are afc's, they're help isn't very good.

I am looking for either a very attractive female, or a duan juan for one on one coaching. I live in ann arbor, and I'd prefer to find someone there. It is hard, when you don't live in a big city. I'd prefer, to make it twice, a week sessions, for low cost.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Dude, do not waste your money on "coaching".

Just go out and talk to women. You will learn more in ONE NIGHT of talking to women than you will in a MONTH of "coaching".

Everything I have ever posted on this forum comes from personal experience, and most of it comes after ONE NIGHT when something happened that made me realize an important aspect of "the game".

Man up, grab your balls, accept you're gonna get rejected a little until you get it right, then go out there and start learning by trial-and-error.
 
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Ill tell you what i think are important:

Testostorone (be masculine)
Having experiences in life (travel, work, money, sports, hobbies, girls etc)
Being able to talk about your experiences and tell stories.

When was the last time you saw a guy have these things and not be a cool guy?
 
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