"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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crossboss

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I was wondering. Since, I am not a very popular guy, but would like to improve.
How would I find, a good wingman, or a free coach, or somebody decent to improve with girls.

I try to make friends, with cool guys, that might help me with girls, but it hasn't been very successful. If I, try and get friends that are afc's, they're help isn't very good.

I am looking for either a very attractive female, or a duan juan for one on one coaching. I live in ann arbor, and I'd prefer to find someone there. It is hard, when you don't live in a big city. I'd prefer, to make it twice, a week sessions, for low cost.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Dude, do not waste your money on "coaching".

Just go out and talk to women. You will learn more in ONE NIGHT of talking to women than you will in a MONTH of "coaching".

Everything I have ever posted on this forum comes from personal experience, and most of it comes after ONE NIGHT when something happened that made me realize an important aspect of "the game".

Man up, grab your balls, accept you're gonna get rejected a little until you get it right, then go out there and start learning by trial-and-error.
 
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Ill tell you what i think are important:

Testostorone (be masculine)
Having experiences in life (travel, work, money, sports, hobbies, girls etc)
Being able to talk about your experiences and tell stories.

When was the last time you saw a guy have these things and not be a cool guy?
 
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