"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What to eat, what to start out with, etc?

I've been working 12hr days M-F and 8hrs on weekends, so I haven't had a chance to do a lot of weight lifting, or even dieting right.

I'm gonna get some Muscle Milk today, and start my gym thang up again.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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70 hour weeks on your feet are tough. go to the gym as few times a week as you can stand and still stay consistent, focus on short, hard workouts and get out of there. otherwise you simply won't have enough downtime to recover.

most of the work will need to be done in the kitchen. quik has done some great posts in the past about how to cook everything you need for a week's worth of eating each weekend.

most guys here will rail against muscle milk, though i seem to remember you're quite a fan.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Throttle said:
70 hour weeks on your feet are tough. go to the gym as few times a week as you can stand and still stay consistent, focus on short, hard workouts and get out of there. otherwise you simply won't have enough downtime to recover.

most of the work will need to be done in the kitchen. quik has done some great posts in the past about how to cook everything you need for a week's worth of eating each weekend.

most guys here will rail against muscle milk, though i seem to remember you're quite a fan.
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Good lookin out Bro.

..and yes, I am a big fan of MM.
 
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