"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Getting flabby again. Back to The Gym!! ...tips?

TheLadiesMan

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What to eat, what to start out with, etc?

I've been working 12hr days M-F and 8hrs on weekends, so I haven't had a chance to do a lot of weight lifting, or even dieting right.

I'm gonna get some Muscle Milk today, and start my gym thang up again.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Throttle

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70 hour weeks on your feet are tough. go to the gym as few times a week as you can stand and still stay consistent, focus on short, hard workouts and get out of there. otherwise you simply won't have enough downtime to recover.

most of the work will need to be done in the kitchen. quik has done some great posts in the past about how to cook everything you need for a week's worth of eating each weekend.

most guys here will rail against muscle milk, though i seem to remember you're quite a fan.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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TheLadiesMan

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Throttle said:
70 hour weeks on your feet are tough. go to the gym as few times a week as you can stand and still stay consistent, focus on short, hard workouts and get out of there. otherwise you simply won't have enough downtime to recover.

most of the work will need to be done in the kitchen. quik has done some great posts in the past about how to cook everything you need for a week's worth of eating each weekend.

most guys here will rail against muscle milk, though i seem to remember you're quite a fan.
Good lookin out Bro.

..and yes, I am a big fan of MM.
 
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