2_intense2
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Once you have been dropped is there any chance of gaining back ithe persons interest?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
getting dropped?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Fingerling
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i agree. speaking from very very recent experience, it's not worth it. if shes broken up she doesn't have the same feelings as you do for her so whats the point in taking her back.martinM. said:
just try be strong delete her numbers and move along
All that time you're spending on trying to get back, you could be using to meet new babes. Point in case, don't waste your time. She's done with you, unless she sees that your not affected whatsoever and with a bunch of new HB's. Then she's gonna want you back.
nismo-4
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It's more trouble than it's worth.
Why would you want to get with a girl who dumped you only to have her dump you again later?
Stop crying over spilled milk. It ain't worth it. Now get out there and meet some sexy babes! When you do, watch her come crawling back to you!
Case closed.
Why would you want to get with a girl who dumped you only to have her dump you again later?
Stop crying over spilled milk. It ain't worth it. Now get out there and meet some sexy babes! When you do, watch her come crawling back to you!
Case closed.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.