2_intense2
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Once you have been dropped is there any chance of gaining back ithe persons interest?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
getting dropped?
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Fingerling
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i agree. speaking from very very recent experience, it's not worth it. if shes broken up she doesn't have the same feelings as you do for her so whats the point in taking her back.martinM. said:
just try be strong delete her numbers and move along
All that time you're spending on trying to get back, you could be using to meet new babes. Point in case, don't waste your time. She's done with you, unless she sees that your not affected whatsoever and with a bunch of new HB's. Then she's gonna want you back.
nismo-4
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It's more trouble than it's worth.
Why would you want to get with a girl who dumped you only to have her dump you again later?
Stop crying over spilled milk. It ain't worth it. Now get out there and meet some sexy babes! When you do, watch her come crawling back to you!
Case closed.
Why would you want to get with a girl who dumped you only to have her dump you again later?
Stop crying over spilled milk. It ain't worth it. Now get out there and meet some sexy babes! When you do, watch her come crawling back to you!
Case closed.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.