2_intense2
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Once you have been dropped is there any chance of gaining back ithe persons interest?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Fingerling
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i agree. speaking from very very recent experience, it's not worth it. if shes broken up she doesn't have the same feelings as you do for her so whats the point in taking her back.martinM. said:
just try be strong delete her numbers and move along
All that time you're spending on trying to get back, you could be using to meet new babes. Point in case, don't waste your time. She's done with you, unless she sees that your not affected whatsoever and with a bunch of new HB's. Then she's gonna want you back.
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It's more trouble than it's worth.
Why would you want to get with a girl who dumped you only to have her dump you again later?
Stop crying over spilled milk. It ain't worth it. Now get out there and meet some sexy babes! When you do, watch her come crawling back to you!
Case closed.
Why would you want to get with a girl who dumped you only to have her dump you again later?
Stop crying over spilled milk. It ain't worth it. Now get out there and meet some sexy babes! When you do, watch her come crawling back to you!
Case closed.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.