"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Getting back into Boxing / MMA

hithard

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I have always been fit, and even though I have probably taken a 5 year break from any form of training my job is fairly physical. So appearance wise I'm still in good shape. I seemed to have lost all motivation around 28 yrs ,and can’t even look at a gym now in my 30s (yeah I know it’s not old).I have been wanting to get back into boxing / MMA, nothing serious I just really enjoy it. However motivation wise I have tanked. The other thing I'm worried about is picking up lasting injuries. After hitting 30 and beyond I have noticed I'm not bouncing back as fast as I use too.

Any advice from those training on issues age related And if they have noticed much difference as they have matured in age ,would be greatly appreciated
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Demodulate

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hithard said:
I have always been fit, and even though I have probably taken a 5 year break from any form of training my job is fairly physical. So appearance wise I'm still in good shape. I seemed to have lost all motivation around 28 yrs ,and can’t even look at a gym now in my 30s (yeah I know it’s not old).I have been wanting to get back into boxing / MMA, nothing serious I just really enjoy it. However motivation wise I have tanked. The other thing I'm worried about is picking up lasting injuries. After hitting 30 and beyond I have noticed I'm not bouncing back as fast as I use too.

Any advice from those training on issues age related And if they have noticed much difference as they have matured in age ,would be greatly appreciated

I pretty much stopped regular physical activity after I dislocated my shoulder skating when I was 23, 8 years later my friend started training me in Karate..

I just turned 33, and I go to the local MMA gym about 4 times a week and take muay thai. I have lost an honest 25 pounds since the begining of this year. My shoulder is sore, I am black and blue all over, but I havent suffored any major injuries as of yet. I just go at my own pace, and ive seen more muscle heads come and go in the short time I have been there.

just get in there and do it.. your old enough to know if your pushing to hard. yeah I dont bounce back like I once did, but if you dont start this year, you will be a year older when you do.
 

hithard

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Demodulate said:
but if you dont start this year, you will be a year older when you do.
This is my exact problem really.Making excuses and not going.Better bite the bullet before another 5 years pass me by.
 

Bible_Belt

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I took up mma last year.

Just be smart about it. Stretch twice as much as everyone else beforehand, and learn to fight in a relaxed manner. Tenseness and trying too hard causes injuries. I notice more injuries in the younger guys due to these reasons.
 

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I'm glad they moved this from the MM forum, I wasn't able to reply. You've got to ease back into it, just like weightlifting and other forms of exercise. If you have a certain pace in mind you want to fight at, let yourself go through the motions 1st then you'll get there.

I listen to my body, if I feel that I'm about to overdo it, then I back off. Be sure you have other leisure-fillers that aren't physical. I've been conditioning and lifting for years now and begin my MMA training in August. My amateur fights will be 3x3-minute rounds, but my conditioning ousts that in quality & quantity, so I will go in w/a faster pace than my opponents the entire time.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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