"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Getting back into Boxing / MMA

hithard

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I have always been fit, and even though I have probably taken a 5 year break from any form of training my job is fairly physical. So appearance wise I'm still in good shape. I seemed to have lost all motivation around 28 yrs ,and can’t even look at a gym now in my 30s (yeah I know it’s not old).I have been wanting to get back into boxing / MMA, nothing serious I just really enjoy it. However motivation wise I have tanked. The other thing I'm worried about is picking up lasting injuries. After hitting 30 and beyond I have noticed I'm not bouncing back as fast as I use too.

Any advice from those training on issues age related And if they have noticed much difference as they have matured in age ,would be greatly appreciated
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Demodulate

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hithard said:
I have always been fit, and even though I have probably taken a 5 year break from any form of training my job is fairly physical. So appearance wise I'm still in good shape. I seemed to have lost all motivation around 28 yrs ,and can’t even look at a gym now in my 30s (yeah I know it’s not old).I have been wanting to get back into boxing / MMA, nothing serious I just really enjoy it. However motivation wise I have tanked. The other thing I'm worried about is picking up lasting injuries. After hitting 30 and beyond I have noticed I'm not bouncing back as fast as I use too.

Any advice from those training on issues age related And if they have noticed much difference as they have matured in age ,would be greatly appreciated

I pretty much stopped regular physical activity after I dislocated my shoulder skating when I was 23, 8 years later my friend started training me in Karate..

I just turned 33, and I go to the local MMA gym about 4 times a week and take muay thai. I have lost an honest 25 pounds since the begining of this year. My shoulder is sore, I am black and blue all over, but I havent suffored any major injuries as of yet. I just go at my own pace, and ive seen more muscle heads come and go in the short time I have been there.

just get in there and do it.. your old enough to know if your pushing to hard. yeah I dont bounce back like I once did, but if you dont start this year, you will be a year older when you do.
 

hithard

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Demodulate said:
but if you dont start this year, you will be a year older when you do.
This is my exact problem really.Making excuses and not going.Better bite the bullet before another 5 years pass me by.
 

Bible_Belt

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I took up mma last year.

Just be smart about it. Stretch twice as much as everyone else beforehand, and learn to fight in a relaxed manner. Tenseness and trying too hard causes injuries. I notice more injuries in the younger guys due to these reasons.
 

BMX

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I'm glad they moved this from the MM forum, I wasn't able to reply. You've got to ease back into it, just like weightlifting and other forms of exercise. If you have a certain pace in mind you want to fight at, let yourself go through the motions 1st then you'll get there.

I listen to my body, if I feel that I'm about to overdo it, then I back off. Be sure you have other leisure-fillers that aren't physical. I've been conditioning and lifting for years now and begin my MMA training in August. My amateur fights will be 3x3-minute rounds, but my conditioning ousts that in quality & quantity, so I will go in w/a faster pace than my opponents the entire time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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