This may be a dumb question, and I may get ripped for asking it, but I really need to know, so I'll go ahead with it. If you want to ask a chick for her number and imply that you are interested in getting to know her, what's the best way to go about doing it? I mean, what would be a good thing to say?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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"Give me your number".
She knows you are interested in her.
She knows you are interested in her.
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If he asks it by email he will lose it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Both. It IS the BASICS.
!!!COME ON PEOPLE!!!
Ill have my own complete yet simple guide online by next week. I want to get all the BS out of the picture and kep the BASICS.
!!!COME ON PEOPLE!!!
Ill have my own complete yet simple guide online by next week. I want to get all the BS out of the picture and kep the BASICS.
I understand the whole e-mail thing, getting her number that way and all, but I see her enough each week to where I could ask her face to face. I'm a real pus and I'm trying to change that, so I really feel this overwhelming need to ask her in person.
Anyway, I was looking for like ways to say what I need to say, you know like, I thought about something like: "I'd really like to get to know you, can I call you sometime?"
Yet I figured I should get the opinions of you guys here just so I don't go off saying something stupid that makes me look like the thing I'm trying not to be: a P---y.
Anyway, I was looking for like ways to say what I need to say, you know like, I thought about something like: "I'd really like to get to know you, can I call you sometime?"
Yet I figured I should get the opinions of you guys here just so I don't go off saying something stupid that makes me look like the thing I'm trying not to be: a P---y.
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Mistake number 2: Never ask something like a question.
Tell her to do it. She will be less inclined to refuse.
Tell her to do it. She will be less inclined to refuse.
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Dunno, but it sure make it easier for her to reject you.
I would say just ask for her number (if she give it to you then she interested and ask her out through the phone or in person. If she not, then move on). Also make a mental note from now on ask for their #, if they are interested in you they will give it and if she not, then you just saved yourself time.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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All your problems comes from this.
You ask for her number. You don't explain why. She knows why you are asking. If she asks why you want it, she's trying to avoid giving it to you.
If you tell her you want to "get to know her" you will look lame and put some pressure on her, reducing your chances.
You can ask for the e-mail after she has given you her number, but don't ever bother using it.
If you see her all the time you can ask her out in person. You will avoid the hassle of missed calls, answering machines and messages. Simply suggest a date, time and activity. Let her say yes or no. If it's not a yes or counter-offer, it means no.
Don't put obstacles in your way. If you see her in person you don't need to mess about with phone/e-mail. After she accepts your date
however you can exchange numbers (you may have to cancel/reschedule/who knows).
But why let her have YOUR number? For one thing, if she doesn't have it she has an excuse if she flakes without bothering to call.
If you tell her you want to "get to know her" you will look lame and put some pressure on her, reducing your chances.
You can ask for the e-mail after she has given you her number, but don't ever bother using it.
If you see her all the time you can ask her out in person. You will avoid the hassle of missed calls, answering machines and messages. Simply suggest a date, time and activity. Let her say yes or no. If it's not a yes or counter-offer, it means no.
Don't put obstacles in your way. If you see her in person you don't need to mess about with phone/e-mail. After she accepts your date
however you can exchange numbers (you may have to cancel/reschedule/who knows). But why let her have YOUR number? For one thing, if she doesn't have it she has an excuse if she flakes without bothering to call.
Talk to her a bit and pull this one...
"Here, write down your number."
When it's a command, it flows a lot more smoothly than asking if you can have the number, then asking for the number, and then having her write it down. Go simple. If she rejects, then it just isn't meant to be.
"Here, write down your number."
When it's a command, it flows a lot more smoothly than asking if you can have the number, then asking for the number, and then having her write it down. Go simple. If she rejects, then it just isn't meant to be.
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Exactly.
Or 'give me your number'
Or 'give me your number'