"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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getting a second chance...need advice

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Alright a girl i was briefly seeing this year wants to meet for coffee this week and I ****ed things up between us and she sent me an e-mail saying that she was rather dissapointed as she was into me and there was a lot of chemistry and passion between us you know...so yeah I just want some advice as too how I should play this?, just be cool and see what happens, because the first date we ever had she invited back for a 'wee drink' and you know that means right?...:crackup:

I like this girl but see this was way back when I was interested in the room mate and sort of kept her at arms length.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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she wants us to end
cause i f*cked her friend (almost)
she gave me one more chance
and i f*cked her again (try!)

-jay z.
 
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Guess this depends on what happened the first time around...
 
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Hmmm... I think more information is needed. How exactly did you mess things up? What's the story behind this roommate? etc... etc...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wait, she TOLD you she was dissapointed? What?
 
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She wants you back because she discovered you can live without her.

This is your choice. Personally, I wouldn't give any woman a second chance since the problems will most likely repeat themselves.
 
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:down: That was a waste of my ****ing time...she was cold and angry and it was awkward so I made up a lie and cut the coffee meeting short, she snapped at me about something (I forget what it was now but I just thought) **** this I'm out of here.

Why exactly did she want to see me again...meh who cares.
 
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