"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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getting a second chance...need advice

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Alright a girl i was briefly seeing this year wants to meet for coffee this week and I ****ed things up between us and she sent me an e-mail saying that she was rather dissapointed as she was into me and there was a lot of chemistry and passion between us you know...so yeah I just want some advice as too how I should play this?, just be cool and see what happens, because the first date we ever had she invited back for a 'wee drink' and you know that means right?...:crackup:

I like this girl but see this was way back when I was interested in the room mate and sort of kept her at arms length.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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she wants us to end
cause i f*cked her friend (almost)
she gave me one more chance
and i f*cked her again (try!)

-jay z.
 
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Guess this depends on what happened the first time around...
 
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Hmmm... I think more information is needed. How exactly did you mess things up? What's the story behind this roommate? etc... etc...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wait, she TOLD you she was dissapointed? What?
 
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She wants you back because she discovered you can live without her.

This is your choice. Personally, I wouldn't give any woman a second chance since the problems will most likely repeat themselves.
 
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:down: That was a waste of my ****ing time...she was cold and angry and it was awkward so I made up a lie and cut the coffee meeting short, she snapped at me about something (I forget what it was now but I just thought) **** this I'm out of here.

Why exactly did she want to see me again...meh who cares.
 
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