Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Getting a Job Solely to Improve my Game and Interact with People - Reccomendations?

JasonTodd

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Hey fellow DJ's, haven't been on in a while but am back and plan on being more active in the coming months.

So recently life has taken a detour and I am left with basically nothing to do. I've been working on my game, all the theory, and everything related to that for almost a year but haven't done enough approaching. So, I've decided that I'm going to attempt to get a job at the local mall just for the sole purpose of meeting many girls around my age(18) and just putting all the stuff I've learned into practice. As well as just getting used to interacting and talking to new people on the daily.

I know a lot of you guys here are older than me, so I just wanted to know if any of you had any recommendations for jobs that you may have had in the past where you were able to meet a lot of girls/women. (please save the sexual job jokes lolol).

Thanks!

Jason
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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SJ413

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Personally, and this is just me, I would try and land a job you actually enjoy, fawk the women. All jobs require some degree of social interaction and persuasion, jumping into any job with cold feet is a wicked awesome learning experience meeting new people and whatnot. Hell, I'm a machinist and I have to keep up socially every day, though not to the same degree as many do.

But, nothing wrong with trying to improve your social skills, and if you ever envision yourself going into sales, by all means, hell yes! I would think workng at a store in a mall would be great for that! I would think that a popular semi-high-end clothing store would be your best bet for meeting and interacting with good looking young women, I see them in there all the time. Suggesting clothes, giving opinions and whatnot would probably be a big plus.

Best of luck!
 

Bince

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Land a job in sales, with targets and unparrallele levels of stress.
 

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At your age I would work as a waiter in a classy restaurant and learn bartending on the side.
 

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Nothing prepared me more on how to deal with all kinds of personality types then waiting tables. If you're not confidant in talking with people, well that job leaves you no choice. For me it also not only got me numbers left on the table, but gave me contacts that I later used for better jobs once I finished my degree.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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