"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Getting a Job Solely to Improve my Game and Interact with People - Reccomendations?

JasonTodd

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Hey fellow DJ's, haven't been on in a while but am back and plan on being more active in the coming months.

So recently life has taken a detour and I am left with basically nothing to do. I've been working on my game, all the theory, and everything related to that for almost a year but haven't done enough approaching. So, I've decided that I'm going to attempt to get a job at the local mall just for the sole purpose of meeting many girls around my age(18) and just putting all the stuff I've learned into practice. As well as just getting used to interacting and talking to new people on the daily.

I know a lot of you guys here are older than me, so I just wanted to know if any of you had any recommendations for jobs that you may have had in the past where you were able to meet a lot of girls/women. (please save the sexual job jokes lolol).

Thanks!

Jason
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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SJ413

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Personally, and this is just me, I would try and land a job you actually enjoy, fawk the women. All jobs require some degree of social interaction and persuasion, jumping into any job with cold feet is a wicked awesome learning experience meeting new people and whatnot. Hell, I'm a machinist and I have to keep up socially every day, though not to the same degree as many do.

But, nothing wrong with trying to improve your social skills, and if you ever envision yourself going into sales, by all means, hell yes! I would think workng at a store in a mall would be great for that! I would think that a popular semi-high-end clothing store would be your best bet for meeting and interacting with good looking young women, I see them in there all the time. Suggesting clothes, giving opinions and whatnot would probably be a big plus.

Best of luck!
 

Bince

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Land a job in sales, with targets and unparrallele levels of stress.
 

bigneil

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At your age I would work as a waiter in a classy restaurant and learn bartending on the side.
 

Clooney4life

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Nothing prepared me more on how to deal with all kinds of personality types then waiting tables. If you're not confidant in talking with people, well that job leaves you no choice. For me it also not only got me numbers left on the table, but gave me contacts that I later used for better jobs once I finished my degree.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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