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Getting a Job Solely to Improve my Game and Interact with People - Reccomendations?

JasonTodd

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Hey fellow DJ's, haven't been on in a while but am back and plan on being more active in the coming months.

So recently life has taken a detour and I am left with basically nothing to do. I've been working on my game, all the theory, and everything related to that for almost a year but haven't done enough approaching. So, I've decided that I'm going to attempt to get a job at the local mall just for the sole purpose of meeting many girls around my age(18) and just putting all the stuff I've learned into practice. As well as just getting used to interacting and talking to new people on the daily.

I know a lot of you guys here are older than me, so I just wanted to know if any of you had any recommendations for jobs that you may have had in the past where you were able to meet a lot of girls/women. (please save the sexual job jokes lolol).

Thanks!

Jason
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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SJ413

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Personally, and this is just me, I would try and land a job you actually enjoy, fawk the women. All jobs require some degree of social interaction and persuasion, jumping into any job with cold feet is a wicked awesome learning experience meeting new people and whatnot. Hell, I'm a machinist and I have to keep up socially every day, though not to the same degree as many do.

But, nothing wrong with trying to improve your social skills, and if you ever envision yourself going into sales, by all means, hell yes! I would think workng at a store in a mall would be great for that! I would think that a popular semi-high-end clothing store would be your best bet for meeting and interacting with good looking young women, I see them in there all the time. Suggesting clothes, giving opinions and whatnot would probably be a big plus.

Best of luck!
 

Bince

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Land a job in sales, with targets and unparrallele levels of stress.
 

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At your age I would work as a waiter in a classy restaurant and learn bartending on the side.
 

Clooney4life

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Nothing prepared me more on how to deal with all kinds of personality types then waiting tables. If you're not confidant in talking with people, well that job leaves you no choice. For me it also not only got me numbers left on the table, but gave me contacts that I later used for better jobs once I finished my degree.
 

Tell her a little about yourself, but not too much. Maintain some mystery. Give her something to think about and wonder about when she's at home.

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