"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting a Job Solely to Improve my Game and Interact with People - Reccomendations?

JasonTodd

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Hey fellow DJ's, haven't been on in a while but am back and plan on being more active in the coming months.

So recently life has taken a detour and I am left with basically nothing to do. I've been working on my game, all the theory, and everything related to that for almost a year but haven't done enough approaching. So, I've decided that I'm going to attempt to get a job at the local mall just for the sole purpose of meeting many girls around my age(18) and just putting all the stuff I've learned into practice. As well as just getting used to interacting and talking to new people on the daily.

I know a lot of you guys here are older than me, so I just wanted to know if any of you had any recommendations for jobs that you may have had in the past where you were able to meet a lot of girls/women. (please save the sexual job jokes lolol).

Thanks!

Jason
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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SJ413

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Personally, and this is just me, I would try and land a job you actually enjoy, fawk the women. All jobs require some degree of social interaction and persuasion, jumping into any job with cold feet is a wicked awesome learning experience meeting new people and whatnot. Hell, I'm a machinist and I have to keep up socially every day, though not to the same degree as many do.

But, nothing wrong with trying to improve your social skills, and if you ever envision yourself going into sales, by all means, hell yes! I would think workng at a store in a mall would be great for that! I would think that a popular semi-high-end clothing store would be your best bet for meeting and interacting with good looking young women, I see them in there all the time. Suggesting clothes, giving opinions and whatnot would probably be a big plus.

Best of luck!
 

Bince

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Land a job in sales, with targets and unparrallele levels of stress.
 

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At your age I would work as a waiter in a classy restaurant and learn bartending on the side.
 

Clooney4life

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Nothing prepared me more on how to deal with all kinds of personality types then waiting tables. If you're not confidant in talking with people, well that job leaves you no choice. For me it also not only got me numbers left on the table, but gave me contacts that I later used for better jobs once I finished my degree.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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