“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Getting a groups interest without bragging?

ElStud

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Alright so I'm on the bus and there's this group of kids sitting around me. So I'm back here making all these sexual jokes and bragging like I'm not a virgin and I completely had the groups interest. But I think they can also sense that I'm not being 100% true to myself since I actually AM a virgin. My jokes mainly consisted of sexual jokes and turning non-sexual things into sexual things. One guy even said "You should be a comedian man. One good thing I did do was I displayed higher value, but is there anyway to do this without bragging? I wonder. But most of my humor though is in being ****y and talking crap and I want to stop that because with those things I'm not being 100% true to myself. I don't want to fall into that trap where everybody finds out I can't back up my crap. So yeah, anybody got any tips of gaining the interests of a group without bragging?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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jamesbell953

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It sounds like you were trying too hard to impress them, instead of actually demonstrating higher value.

Even by trying to hard to make a group of girls (or girls & guys) laugh, you are supplicating. By being overly jokey you're entertaining them rather than doing normal DHV stuff.

It's not a matter of you bragging - from what you've said you weren't really bragging at all, but just being funny. I mean, don't get me wrong, it CAN be entertaining, but it's NOT what will attract girls.
 

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Not DHVing is a DHV in and of itself.
 

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Roulette said:
Not DHVing is a DHV in and of itself.
QFT...... If you actually believe you have HV, then you're less apt to overtly try to display it. Thus, you come across as more natural, and not so contrived.
 
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