"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Getting a groups interest without bragging?

ElStud

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Alright so I'm on the bus and there's this group of kids sitting around me. So I'm back here making all these sexual jokes and bragging like I'm not a virgin and I completely had the groups interest. But I think they can also sense that I'm not being 100% true to myself since I actually AM a virgin. My jokes mainly consisted of sexual jokes and turning non-sexual things into sexual things. One guy even said "You should be a comedian man. One good thing I did do was I displayed higher value, but is there anyway to do this without bragging? I wonder. But most of my humor though is in being ****y and talking crap and I want to stop that because with those things I'm not being 100% true to myself. I don't want to fall into that trap where everybody finds out I can't back up my crap. So yeah, anybody got any tips of gaining the interests of a group without bragging?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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jamesbell953

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It sounds like you were trying too hard to impress them, instead of actually demonstrating higher value.

Even by trying to hard to make a group of girls (or girls & guys) laugh, you are supplicating. By being overly jokey you're entertaining them rather than doing normal DHV stuff.

It's not a matter of you bragging - from what you've said you weren't really bragging at all, but just being funny. I mean, don't get me wrong, it CAN be entertaining, but it's NOT what will attract girls.
 

Roulette

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Not DHVing is a DHV in and of itself.
 

JLR

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Roulette said:
Not DHVing is a DHV in and of itself.
QFT...... If you actually believe you have HV, then you're less apt to overtly try to display it. Thus, you come across as more natural, and not so contrived.
 
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