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Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Getting a group together

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Has anyone ever had to build a network of friends -- like particularly male buddies u can roll with -- from scratch?

I used to have a real good team, then it kinda fell apart, particularly after college. I work in the city and get around a lot, but it seems difficult to actually get together a group from scratch that you can fit well with?

Anyone got some *REAL* experiences to share? Should I just be going it alone for now? I really feel I need some group to hang out with.

Cheers,
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm exactly where you are right now. I'm way too different than everyone else to have mindless chatter and say things just to fit in.
 
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reallyfreakinlost said:
I'm exactly where you are right now. I'm way too different than everyone else to have mindless chatter and say things just to fit in.
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Man sorry 2 say it, but thats *exactly* why ur so fuked up lmao

seriously man if you dont have SOME KIND of crew, your gonna have trouble building status & respect wherever your from!!

Now are there REAL MEN HERE or just fuking emos???
 
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AtomicDog said:
Man sorry 2 say it, but thats *exactly* why ur so fuked up lmao

seriously man if you dont have SOME KIND of crew, your gonna have trouble building status & respect wherever your from!!

Now are there REAL MEN HERE or just fuking emos???
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Ok so you're saying if somebody moves into a new city with a new job, and has no friends, (or as you like to call them, crew), then they can't start just from scratch?
 
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AtomicDog said:
Has anyone ever had to build a network of friends -- like particularly male buddies u can roll with -- from scratch?

I used to have a real good team, then it kinda fell apart, particularly after college. I work in the city and get around a lot, but it seems difficult to actually get together a group from scratch that you can fit well with?

Anyone got some *REAL* experiences to share? Should I just be going it alone for now? I really feel I need some group to hang out with.

Cheers,
@tomic
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Ok Atomic Dog Sh*t... Let me break this down for you... you're calling me f*cked up but you have the exact same problem, are you stupid or what? By the way, you're 19 and you're out of college? Do you quit your friends, school and everything else that easy? no wonder you can't get laid you loser
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Ok Atomic Dog Sh*t... Let me break this down for you... you're calling me f*cked up but you have the exact same problem, are you stupid or what? By the way, you're 19 and you're out of college? Do you quit your friends, school and everything else that easy? no wonder you can't get laid you loser
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Look sorry man I offended without really meaning to

Im just saying -- u seemed to be putting down being with a group -- what kind of response is that to this post??
 
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Look sorry man I offended without really meaning to

Im just saying -- u seemed to be putting down being with a group -- what kind of response is that to this post??
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The only thing I was putting down was myself... I was criticizing myself for being too different and not saying stupid sh*t to fit in, I'm not against being in a group, I just got pissed off because I admitted some of my faults, and then you go on and diss me for admitting that stuff... so next time you really shouldn't jump to conclusions that quickly
 
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