"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Getting a girl you don't know

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How to you get a girl you like who you don't know in person? Say you saw her on Instagram, Facebook etc but don't know where to find her. Do you go for it through DMs or do nothing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Well you should never do nothing, nothing is a choice and it is what you will be left with if you make it.

Go for it... In person... Without social proofing, going through social media is very hard and risky.
 

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Well you should never do nothing, nothing is a choice and it is what you will be left with if you make it.

Go for it... In person... Without social proofing, going through social media is very hard and risky.
I agree. There is this girl I found on insta, very hot, dentist but I have no clue where she is going out. It's annoying to text her over instagram because if I have saw her I would go for it definitely
 

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So Act like you met her out one night....

"Did I meet you the other night in downtown Flagstaff? I'm kicking myself that if I did I didn't get your number....I want to find out more about...(something you gleaned from her I page)...

It's worth a shot...
 

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So Act like you met her out one night....

"Did I meet you the other night in downtown Flagstaff? I'm kicking myself that if I did I didn't get your number....I want to find out more about...(something you gleaned from her I page)...

It's worth a shot...
That's very good man.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Just shoot them a DM: "hey what's up"
That's it. Nothing fancy. You don't even know her so why act like you have to prove yourself?
If she is attracted she will respond. If she doesnt, move on.
 
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