from my experience its TOO easy to hook up with a girl or get her with or without a boyfriend but the hard part is keeping her interested? i mean all you have to do is approach in a confident manner get # call said # and make a date on the date you show her your a funny guy with goals in life and warm her up with kino. slowly progressing to the kiss. now the hard part is after i have no idea how to keep her interested thus my gfs end up losing interesting after 2 weeks. i would really like some help on this
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
getting a girl is easy keeping her is hard.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
it sounds like your not meeting the right chicks. just keep doing what you are doing, if your getting the number I believe your doing good then. just keep fishing.
aussiegoat55
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If you've created any attraction then your girls should stick around longer. Remeber to not gradually turn into a wuss. It may be that you're dating girls who are not interested and that don't seem to click with you.
You need to have good date places, there needs to be surprises, romance, challenge, mystery, etc. Keep working at it, good luck dude.
You need to have good date places, there needs to be surprises, romance, challenge, mystery, etc. Keep working at it, good luck dude.
theunflushables
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Ok, here is what you do. Date said girls, have sex with said girls move on. Why do the hard stuff when there are more girls waiting in line?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Depedns where you're going wrong.
Are you calling too often? Showering her with feelings? De-masculisizing yourself?
You could be doing any number of things wrong man, be more specific and we can help you.
Are you calling too often? Showering her with feelings? De-masculisizing yourself?
You could be doing any number of things wrong man, be more specific and we can help you.
GaryUranga
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get your life together, get hobbies, etc etc.. things that make you interesting, dont seem needy dont make her the center and become naturally attractive
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
What makes a LTR work? Trust, communication, good sex and friendship.
Friendship I say? Yes, a girlfriend is just like a best friend. Only thing different is the kissing and sex.
So keeping a girl interested... ACTION, ACTION, ACTION! Don't just go over to her house to watch tv and talk all day. Go out to lunch, somewhere she hasnt been yet. Then, after that go to the park for a walk or play a sport together. Keep things different, exciting, and fresh. Rent a movie together then afterwords take her to hang out with your friends. Go to a party...
There is all kinds of things you can do together everytime you hang out to keep her interested. Now, you just gotta stay away from being a nice guy and be a man with her.
Friendship I say? Yes, a girlfriend is just like a best friend. Only thing different is the kissing and sex.
So keeping a girl interested... ACTION, ACTION, ACTION! Don't just go over to her house to watch tv and talk all day. Go out to lunch, somewhere she hasnt been yet. Then, after that go to the park for a walk or play a sport together. Keep things different, exciting, and fresh. Rent a movie together then afterwords take her to hang out with your friends. Go to a party...
There is all kinds of things you can do together everytime you hang out to keep her interested. Now, you just gotta stay away from being a nice guy and be a man with her.