from my experience its TOO easy to hook up with a girl or get her with or without a boyfriend but the hard part is keeping her interested? i mean all you have to do is approach in a confident manner get # call said # and make a date on the date you show her your a funny guy with goals in life and warm her up with kino. slowly progressing to the kiss. now the hard part is after i have no idea how to keep her interested thus my gfs end up losing interesting after 2 weeks. i would really like some help on this
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
getting a girl is easy keeping her is hard.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
it sounds like your not meeting the right chicks. just keep doing what you are doing, if your getting the number I believe your doing good then. just keep fishing.
aussiegoat55
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If you've created any attraction then your girls should stick around longer. Remeber to not gradually turn into a wuss. It may be that you're dating girls who are not interested and that don't seem to click with you.
You need to have good date places, there needs to be surprises, romance, challenge, mystery, etc. Keep working at it, good luck dude.
You need to have good date places, there needs to be surprises, romance, challenge, mystery, etc. Keep working at it, good luck dude.
theunflushables
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Ok, here is what you do. Date said girls, have sex with said girls move on. Why do the hard stuff when there are more girls waiting in line?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Depedns where you're going wrong.
Are you calling too often? Showering her with feelings? De-masculisizing yourself?
You could be doing any number of things wrong man, be more specific and we can help you.
Are you calling too often? Showering her with feelings? De-masculisizing yourself?
You could be doing any number of things wrong man, be more specific and we can help you.
GaryUranga
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get your life together, get hobbies, etc etc.. things that make you interesting, dont seem needy dont make her the center and become naturally attractive
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
What makes a LTR work? Trust, communication, good sex and friendship.
Friendship I say? Yes, a girlfriend is just like a best friend. Only thing different is the kissing and sex.
So keeping a girl interested... ACTION, ACTION, ACTION! Don't just go over to her house to watch tv and talk all day. Go out to lunch, somewhere she hasnt been yet. Then, after that go to the park for a walk or play a sport together. Keep things different, exciting, and fresh. Rent a movie together then afterwords take her to hang out with your friends. Go to a party...
There is all kinds of things you can do together everytime you hang out to keep her interested. Now, you just gotta stay away from being a nice guy and be a man with her.
Friendship I say? Yes, a girlfriend is just like a best friend. Only thing different is the kissing and sex.
So keeping a girl interested... ACTION, ACTION, ACTION! Don't just go over to her house to watch tv and talk all day. Go out to lunch, somewhere she hasnt been yet. Then, after that go to the park for a walk or play a sport together. Keep things different, exciting, and fresh. Rent a movie together then afterwords take her to hang out with your friends. Go to a party...
There is all kinds of things you can do together everytime you hang out to keep her interested. Now, you just gotta stay away from being a nice guy and be a man with her.