from my experience its TOO easy to hook up with a girl or get her with or without a boyfriend but the hard part is keeping her interested? i mean all you have to do is approach in a confident manner get # call said # and make a date on the date you show her your a funny guy with goals in life and warm her up with kino. slowly progressing to the kiss. now the hard part is after i have no idea how to keep her interested thus my gfs end up losing interesting after 2 weeks. i would really like some help on this
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
getting a girl is easy keeping her is hard.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
jesusrules
Senior Don Juan
it sounds like your not meeting the right chicks. just keep doing what you are doing, if your getting the number I believe your doing good then. just keep fishing.
aussiegoat55
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If you've created any attraction then your girls should stick around longer. Remeber to not gradually turn into a wuss. It may be that you're dating girls who are not interested and that don't seem to click with you.
You need to have good date places, there needs to be surprises, romance, challenge, mystery, etc. Keep working at it, good luck dude.
You need to have good date places, there needs to be surprises, romance, challenge, mystery, etc. Keep working at it, good luck dude.
theunflushables
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Ok, here is what you do. Date said girls, have sex with said girls move on. Why do the hard stuff when there are more girls waiting in line?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
Depedns where you're going wrong.
Are you calling too often? Showering her with feelings? De-masculisizing yourself?
You could be doing any number of things wrong man, be more specific and we can help you.
Are you calling too often? Showering her with feelings? De-masculisizing yourself?
You could be doing any number of things wrong man, be more specific and we can help you.
GaryUranga
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get your life together, get hobbies, etc etc.. things that make you interesting, dont seem needy dont make her the center and become naturally attractive
I.A.F.Y.B.
Master Don Juan
What makes a LTR work? Trust, communication, good sex and friendship.
Friendship I say? Yes, a girlfriend is just like a best friend. Only thing different is the kissing and sex.
So keeping a girl interested... ACTION, ACTION, ACTION! Don't just go over to her house to watch tv and talk all day. Go out to lunch, somewhere she hasnt been yet. Then, after that go to the park for a walk or play a sport together. Keep things different, exciting, and fresh. Rent a movie together then afterwords take her to hang out with your friends. Go to a party...
There is all kinds of things you can do together everytime you hang out to keep her interested. Now, you just gotta stay away from being a nice guy and be a man with her.
Friendship I say? Yes, a girlfriend is just like a best friend. Only thing different is the kissing and sex.
So keeping a girl interested... ACTION, ACTION, ACTION! Don't just go over to her house to watch tv and talk all day. Go out to lunch, somewhere she hasnt been yet. Then, after that go to the park for a walk or play a sport together. Keep things different, exciting, and fresh. Rent a movie together then afterwords take her to hang out with your friends. Go to a party...
There is all kinds of things you can do together everytime you hang out to keep her interested. Now, you just gotta stay away from being a nice guy and be a man with her.