"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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gettin shhit done..

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i dunno how much this'll help soime of you people..

i'm fairly new to the game but i think this will be of some help..

here are 2 ways i do something i cannot bring myself to do. like an approach or a simple kino like putting your arms around a chick.

here's how i do it:

method #1: Countdown from 10.. Counting down very slowly 9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1.. Upon reaching "1" you must do what you have to do. This brings up tension and gives me some kind of testosterone or some kind of an adrenaline rush. Try it. Don't knock it till you've tried it. :)

method #2: Inhaaale...
Now this is the second method I use to get sh*t done. Anyway, You simply inhale deeply, then do what you have to do! Don't think it'll work?? The point here is you do NOT exhale untill you do it! So your body will be forced to do what you need to do in order to survive. So you cannot exhale until you've done what you have to do.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Caveman

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How'd your date go?
 

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I use the first one when I am lifting heavy weights. I count down from 3 though.
 

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Originally posted by -.-
method #1: Countdown from 10.. Counting down very slowly 9-8-7-6-5-4-3-2-1.. Upon reaching "1" you must do what you have to do. This brings up tension and gives me some kind of testosterone or some kind of an adrenaline rush. Try it. Don't knock it till you've tried it. :)
I've tried a similar version of this one and it worked like a charm.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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