"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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GullableJoe

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I'm still pretty new to this site, but I've read enough to understand whats going on. I'd like to explain one thing. I've read the posts that talks about when you first meet a girl and she's just EVERYTHING you've ever wanted in her and your just so proud to show her off and let your friends see what kind of chick you picked up. Its kinda like sayin "look fellows what I can get", sorta thing. But after a while, after you've been with her, after all your friends know whats up, you see another girl. Except this one seems a little more prettier than the first one. This girl seems to really get the guys attention. So what do you do? You start trying to get her. You see I think it all goes around like a neverending book. We just can't be satisfyed, or I can't. So why let 1 single girl get to you. Once you've been with her for a while its gonna get old. So don't put yourself through all the frustration of initiating the conversation. When your afraid to approach a hottie, think back "she's gonna be like that other girl, she'll get boring after a while" so it kinda makes it easier to approach. Or in my opinion it does.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ice Cold

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That IS a good mental state to adopt for cold approaches.

Props to the man!
 

Aramas

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I think it's called youth :)

Who was it that said that the only redeeming feature of youth is that it eventually wears off?
 
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