"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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GullableJoe

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I'm still pretty new to this site, but I've read enough to understand whats going on. I'd like to explain one thing. I've read the posts that talks about when you first meet a girl and she's just EVERYTHING you've ever wanted in her and your just so proud to show her off and let your friends see what kind of chick you picked up. Its kinda like sayin "look fellows what I can get", sorta thing. But after a while, after you've been with her, after all your friends know whats up, you see another girl. Except this one seems a little more prettier than the first one. This girl seems to really get the guys attention. So what do you do? You start trying to get her. You see I think it all goes around like a neverending book. We just can't be satisfyed, or I can't. So why let 1 single girl get to you. Once you've been with her for a while its gonna get old. So don't put yourself through all the frustration of initiating the conversation. When your afraid to approach a hottie, think back "she's gonna be like that other girl, she'll get boring after a while" so it kinda makes it easier to approach. Or in my opinion it does.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Ice Cold

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That IS a good mental state to adopt for cold approaches.

Props to the man!
 

Aramas

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I think it's called youth :)

Who was it that said that the only redeeming feature of youth is that it eventually wears off?
 
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