"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Get rid of her...them?

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exwhyzee

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Whats the best way to get rid of a girl who you picked up on and hooked up with for awhile. I got a couple girls who just need to move on. I never call them, but they find a way to get into my life whether it be by literally stalking me or "bumping" into me downtown etc. I don't want to be ust a jerk because I do not want them to ruin my name, but maybe that is a good thing...Im
thinking of the whole these no such thing as bad advertising theory.

What are your thoughts on the matter?

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Well if its serious enough you could file a few restraining orders and change your number or just go the jerk route and tell them off to never bother you again.

If none of that works for you, you'll just have to get back with each of them for a while and fake AFC mode and be incredibly clingy and that should drive them away.

That or find out what irritates them and become that type of guy.

Good luck!
 
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Pawn them off on some of your desperate friends.
 
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OK thanks for the advice, its not serious enough to get my number changed, its just a nussaince.

Whats the best way to explain these past relationships to new girls?
 
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I'm not sure which one of us likes to be let down easy and have our egos stroked. Eitherway, I would go with honesty. Tell them that you're just not feeling them like that anymore. You've moved on with your life and that they should do the same. Be prepared, you're gonna get a bunch of snippy remarks back, but I guarentee you that you won't be seeing them around again for a while.

They'll eventually come back. They always do. When they do, don't bend on what you told them before. Getting back with them gives them false hope.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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exwhyzee said:
...Whats the best way to explain these past relationships to new girls?
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And why would you want to do this? :confused:
 
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tell them that you like them all, but your not looking for a relationship, you would just like to be (plutonic) friends. don't front, keep it real wit em.
 
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