"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Get rid of her...them?

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Whats the best way to get rid of a girl who you picked up on and hooked up with for awhile. I got a couple girls who just need to move on. I never call them, but they find a way to get into my life whether it be by literally stalking me or "bumping" into me downtown etc. I don't want to be ust a jerk because I do not want them to ruin my name, but maybe that is a good thing...Im
thinking of the whole these no such thing as bad advertising theory.

What are your thoughts on the matter?

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Well if its serious enough you could file a few restraining orders and change your number or just go the jerk route and tell them off to never bother you again.

If none of that works for you, you'll just have to get back with each of them for a while and fake AFC mode and be incredibly clingy and that should drive them away.

That or find out what irritates them and become that type of guy.

Good luck!
 
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Pawn them off on some of your desperate friends.
 
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OK thanks for the advice, its not serious enough to get my number changed, its just a nussaince.

Whats the best way to explain these past relationships to new girls?
 
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I'm not sure which one of us likes to be let down easy and have our egos stroked. Eitherway, I would go with honesty. Tell them that you're just not feeling them like that anymore. You've moved on with your life and that they should do the same. Be prepared, you're gonna get a bunch of snippy remarks back, but I guarentee you that you won't be seeing them around again for a while.

They'll eventually come back. They always do. When they do, don't bend on what you told them before. Getting back with them gives them false hope.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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exwhyzee said:
...Whats the best way to explain these past relationships to new girls?
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And why would you want to do this? :confused:
 
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tell them that you like them all, but your not looking for a relationship, you would just like to be (plutonic) friends. don't front, keep it real wit em.
 
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