"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Get rid of her...them?

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exwhyzee

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Whats the best way to get rid of a girl who you picked up on and hooked up with for awhile. I got a couple girls who just need to move on. I never call them, but they find a way to get into my life whether it be by literally stalking me or "bumping" into me downtown etc. I don't want to be ust a jerk because I do not want them to ruin my name, but maybe that is a good thing...Im
thinking of the whole these no such thing as bad advertising theory.

What are your thoughts on the matter?

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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Well if its serious enough you could file a few restraining orders and change your number or just go the jerk route and tell them off to never bother you again.

If none of that works for you, you'll just have to get back with each of them for a while and fake AFC mode and be incredibly clingy and that should drive them away.

That or find out what irritates them and become that type of guy.

Good luck!
 
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Pawn them off on some of your desperate friends.
 
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OK thanks for the advice, its not serious enough to get my number changed, its just a nussaince.

Whats the best way to explain these past relationships to new girls?
 
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I'm not sure which one of us likes to be let down easy and have our egos stroked. Eitherway, I would go with honesty. Tell them that you're just not feeling them like that anymore. You've moved on with your life and that they should do the same. Be prepared, you're gonna get a bunch of snippy remarks back, but I guarentee you that you won't be seeing them around again for a while.

They'll eventually come back. They always do. When they do, don't bend on what you told them before. Getting back with them gives them false hope.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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exwhyzee said:
...Whats the best way to explain these past relationships to new girls?
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And why would you want to do this? :confused:
 
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tell them that you like them all, but your not looking for a relationship, you would just like to be (plutonic) friends. don't front, keep it real wit em.
 
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