Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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get in here and rate this girl I'm hooking up with.

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I don't know how many of you have heard of www.suicidegirls.com, but it's a place that has pics and profiles of tons of sort of goth type chicks.....some are hot, some arent......anyway since I live in Portland, and one of their offices is based out of Portland, I decided to go see what kind of chicks are on there.

So I found a girl I thought was hot and emailed her, sent her some pics and sh*t. She wrote me back and asked me if I knew where a certain bar was, and if I'd like to meet her there for some drinks and to sit there and bullsh*t. I didn't know she was so local!

I said yes, and were supposed to meet up on Sunday. She's the stripper/naked pics on the internet type of girl, so no way is she LTR material, but damn I'd like to wax that ass.

At least that's the plan. I'm not sure about the policy regarding links/posting naked pics, so here's a non naked one:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v23/cactus3178/Luxe.jpg

Just wanted to get some opinions on what some of you guys think. I'm a sucker for black hair, plus I think she's hot ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Yeah,

I like the goth bird look, except most are bloody miserable biatches.

That girl looks nice HB7, looks the hairy type going off the eyebrows though.
 
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I was gonna say this was a pointless thread, but...

I'd bang that from here to timbuktoo. I'd probably want a return ticket, too.

Seriously... if you dont go for that, I'd be disappointed in the entire male population.

If you two really hit it off, I see no reason for it to be non-LTR. I'd have no problem with guys wanting to screw my girl... if they took advantage of her, they'd certainly know it, and if she cheated on me, then I'd just forget her.

Personally I'd think it'd be cool banging a chick that half the people on the internet would just dream of banging. You'd be getting it on a regular basis, too.
 
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^

Agreed. My main goal here is to get in and get out. I don't think I could ever really date a stripper anyway....if things got more serious, that's not the kind of girl you can take home to mom ;)

But damn, I think she's fine :)
 
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she's pretty fine alright. do tell us what happened thereafter
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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DAMN. If you won't hit that you are gay. :cool:
 
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Lol. I can assure you she's not plump. Man, I'd love to post a more, um, revealing pic, but I'm not sure if it's against the TOS.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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bwaaa she aint all that, id still hit it nevertheless :D
 
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It all depends on what's around. If she was in the club, wouldnt be one of my prime choices to aproach, and if she was taking a cofee with average girls, i'd hit it. I think she's nice, probably a 7.
 
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she's cute, so nothing wrong with that aspect. but she IS a goth, and if you piss her off or she catches you with another girl, she will curse you and make your cack fall off, and then send her crow to steal it.

have fun!
 
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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
she's cute, so nothing wrong with that aspect. but she IS a goth, and if you piss her off or she catches you with another girl, she will curse you and make your cack fall off, and then send her crow to steal it.

have fun!
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LOL! The man is surely preaching from experience! :D
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I shall only rate the naked pics

:D
 
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There's a real easy way to see the nekkid pics, if you are the least bit computer literate.

Good luck guys.

(Her other pic isn't bad either. And it seems that she's selling her car).
 
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I saw her naked pic and I must say she is a HB9 in my book!...I hope to score something like that in the future.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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