"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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get in here and rate this girl I'm hooking up with.

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I don't know how many of you have heard of www.suicidegirls.com, but it's a place that has pics and profiles of tons of sort of goth type chicks.....some are hot, some arent......anyway since I live in Portland, and one of their offices is based out of Portland, I decided to go see what kind of chicks are on there.

So I found a girl I thought was hot and emailed her, sent her some pics and sh*t. She wrote me back and asked me if I knew where a certain bar was, and if I'd like to meet her there for some drinks and to sit there and bullsh*t. I didn't know she was so local!

I said yes, and were supposed to meet up on Sunday. She's the stripper/naked pics on the internet type of girl, so no way is she LTR material, but damn I'd like to wax that ass.

At least that's the plan. I'm not sure about the policy regarding links/posting naked pics, so here's a non naked one:

http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v23/cactus3178/Luxe.jpg

Just wanted to get some opinions on what some of you guys think. I'm a sucker for black hair, plus I think she's hot ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yeah,

I like the goth bird look, except most are bloody miserable biatches.

That girl looks nice HB7, looks the hairy type going off the eyebrows though.
 
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I was gonna say this was a pointless thread, but...

I'd bang that from here to timbuktoo. I'd probably want a return ticket, too.

Seriously... if you dont go for that, I'd be disappointed in the entire male population.

If you two really hit it off, I see no reason for it to be non-LTR. I'd have no problem with guys wanting to screw my girl... if they took advantage of her, they'd certainly know it, and if she cheated on me, then I'd just forget her.

Personally I'd think it'd be cool banging a chick that half the people on the internet would just dream of banging. You'd be getting it on a regular basis, too.
 
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^

Agreed. My main goal here is to get in and get out. I don't think I could ever really date a stripper anyway....if things got more serious, that's not the kind of girl you can take home to mom ;)

But damn, I think she's fine :)
 
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she's pretty fine alright. do tell us what happened thereafter
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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DAMN. If you won't hit that you are gay. :cool:
 
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Lol. I can assure you she's not plump. Man, I'd love to post a more, um, revealing pic, but I'm not sure if it's against the TOS.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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bwaaa she aint all that, id still hit it nevertheless :D
 
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It all depends on what's around. If she was in the club, wouldnt be one of my prime choices to aproach, and if she was taking a cofee with average girls, i'd hit it. I think she's nice, probably a 7.
 
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she's cute, so nothing wrong with that aspect. but she IS a goth, and if you piss her off or she catches you with another girl, she will curse you and make your cack fall off, and then send her crow to steal it.

have fun!
 
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Originally posted by MindOverMatter
she's cute, so nothing wrong with that aspect. but she IS a goth, and if you piss her off or she catches you with another girl, she will curse you and make your cack fall off, and then send her crow to steal it.

have fun!
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LOL! The man is surely preaching from experience! :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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I shall only rate the naked pics

:D
 
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There's a real easy way to see the nekkid pics, if you are the least bit computer literate.

Good luck guys.

(Her other pic isn't bad either. And it seems that she's selling her car).
 
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I saw her naked pic and I must say she is a HB9 in my book!...I hope to score something like that in the future.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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