"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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get her number and leave or give her yours too?

Tails

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this thought just came to mind. some girls in the past asked me for my number and then gave me theirs. but most times i'd just take the girls number and leave. call her next few days. i'm just curious as to who here gives a girls their number after getting the girls.

i once got a girls number and i text her a message saying thanks with a wink, and at the same time, she had my number :)

this way, she might end up calling me before i call her. what do you guys think about this?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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backbreaker

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I never do. Simpley becasue you don't know what type of woman she is. She could be the stalker type that calls you 20 times in 10 mintues until you pick up the phone.

Unless they ASK for it, then I usually give them my house phone, and I am never at home so that's pointless anyway.
 

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when girls are interested in you, they'll ask for your number. give it to them on the basis that they give them theirs too. there are no exceptions to this.
 
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