"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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get her number and leave or give her yours too?

Tails

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this thought just came to mind. some girls in the past asked me for my number and then gave me theirs. but most times i'd just take the girls number and leave. call her next few days. i'm just curious as to who here gives a girls their number after getting the girls.

i once got a girls number and i text her a message saying thanks with a wink, and at the same time, she had my number :)

this way, she might end up calling me before i call her. what do you guys think about this?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker

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I never do. Simpley becasue you don't know what type of woman she is. She could be the stalker type that calls you 20 times in 10 mintues until you pick up the phone.

Unless they ASK for it, then I usually give them my house phone, and I am never at home so that's pointless anyway.
 

DJ_Dork

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when girls are interested in you, they'll ask for your number. give it to them on the basis that they give them theirs too. there are no exceptions to this.
 
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