"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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get a gf then lose interest?

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illmatic1005

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how come everytime i get a gf, i lose interest in the girl like the day after?

for instance, i would be trying so hard to use all the techniques on her and want her so bad and whatnot but then when i actually do get her i dont care anymore and kinda see all her flaws and stuff afterwards..

this ALWAYS happens..like i only want the challenge and once i get it i move on..

also, can this loss of interest in a new GF be + or - because it shows u arent needy and whatever or can it make her lose interest too?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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noodle

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Happens to me all the time dude. Sometimes its me that loses interest, but most of the time she loses interest and I end up losing interest after that.

i don't know why...
lol, from my experiences i think that it is easier to get a girl than to keep one.
 
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same thing happened to me recently, except i didn't get her to be my girlfriend. This chick fell for me so hard and i won the game and she was no longer a challenge.

As of yesterday I broke things off with her just because she was to boring and wasting my time. IMO the challenge is really the best thing about getting a girl, after the challenge is over hopefully the girl is interesting enough.
 
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happens to me. sucks. 2 girls fell for me so hard but after the chase was over I lost interest and now they hate me...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I think you just answered your own question.

how come everytime i get a gf, i lose interest in the girl like the day after?
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this ALWAYS happens..like i only want the challenge and once i get it i move on..
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