"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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get a gf then lose interest?

illmatic1005

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how come everytime i get a gf, i lose interest in the girl like the day after?

for instance, i would be trying so hard to use all the techniques on her and want her so bad and whatnot but then when i actually do get her i dont care anymore and kinda see all her flaws and stuff afterwards..

this ALWAYS happens..like i only want the challenge and once i get it i move on..

also, can this loss of interest in a new GF be + or - because it shows u arent needy and whatever or can it make her lose interest too?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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noodle

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Happens to me all the time dude. Sometimes its me that loses interest, but most of the time she loses interest and I end up losing interest after that.

i don't know why...
lol, from my experiences i think that it is easier to get a girl than to keep one.
 

Alphamale1821

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same thing happened to me recently, except i didn't get her to be my girlfriend. This chick fell for me so hard and i won the game and she was no longer a challenge.

As of yesterday I broke things off with her just because she was to boring and wasting my time. IMO the challenge is really the best thing about getting a girl, after the challenge is over hopefully the girl is interesting enough.
 

eko

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happens to me. sucks. 2 girls fell for me so hard but after the chase was over I lost interest and now they hate me...
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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JDA70

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I think you just answered your own question.

how come everytime i get a gf, i lose interest in the girl like the day after?
this ALWAYS happens..like i only want the challenge and once i get it i move on..
 
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