"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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illmatic1005

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how come everytime i get a gf, i lose interest in the girl like the day after?

for instance, i would be trying so hard to use all the techniques on her and want her so bad and whatnot but then when i actually do get her i dont care anymore and kinda see all her flaws and stuff afterwards..

this ALWAYS happens..like i only want the challenge and once i get it i move on..

also, can this loss of interest in a new GF be + or - because it shows u arent needy and whatever or can it make her lose interest too?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Happens to me all the time dude. Sometimes its me that loses interest, but most of the time she loses interest and I end up losing interest after that.

i don't know why...
lol, from my experiences i think that it is easier to get a girl than to keep one.
 
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same thing happened to me recently, except i didn't get her to be my girlfriend. This chick fell for me so hard and i won the game and she was no longer a challenge.

As of yesterday I broke things off with her just because she was to boring and wasting my time. IMO the challenge is really the best thing about getting a girl, after the challenge is over hopefully the girl is interesting enough.
 
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happens to me. sucks. 2 girls fell for me so hard but after the chase was over I lost interest and now they hate me...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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JDA70

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I think you just answered your own question.

how come everytime i get a gf, i lose interest in the girl like the day after?
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this ALWAYS happens..like i only want the challenge and once i get it i move on..
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