"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
German Women
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
BigWillyStyle
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Sure. And everyone around here is blue-eyed and has blonde hair... :crazy:
Dude, you won't see any difference. People look pretty much the same.
But maybe it will all seem less prude to you than in the US. And it's true, almost everybody speaks some English, so it won't be that hard for you to get into a conversation.
Where are you going to be stationed?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
BigWillyStyle
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In reality though, Germany has become flooded with immigrants (Turks constituting the majority) so finding born-and-bred German girls is kind of like going to Mexico and finding a Mexican girl that will suck you off without charging 30 Pesos. Ok, that may be a bit of an exaggeration. But you see what I'm saying: Germany's become quite the multi-cultural nation so don't just ask, "What are German girls like", as many immigrants have not adopted much of the German culture and remain steadfast in holding on to their homeland's ideals and traditions.
It definitely is. Although it depends on where you're going. It's true, there are those cities where you won't find many "native" Germans left. But once you leave the urban areas, you'll see that immigrants still are a minority.
There are almost none marriages between Germans and immigrants, don't ask me why. This has not changed since more than 30 years. The Muslim girls mostly sit at home and live their lifes until they marry their Muslim husbands, who are often chosen by their parents.
Close to Munich? You're kidding, right? :crackup:
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AlexTheGreat
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Energizer said:
Yo Churchill, it might be time for you to get with the program. The war's been over for more than 60 years, and Hitler's been buried for more than that.
There's a thing called Peace that happened
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Energizer
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You're right, but I gather that tongue in cheek is above your station? I have a dry sense of humour and unfortunately whenever I meet a German I can't help but do a Basil Fawlty.AlexTheGreat said:Yo Churchill, it might be time for you to get with the program. The war's been over for more than 60 years, and Hitler's been buried for more than that.
There's a thing called Peace that happened
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yfl6Lu3xQW0
AlexTheGreat
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Energizer said:
Hahahaha that video was hillarious!