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Master Don Juan
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All you doomsayers better get ready!
comic_relief
All you doomsayers better get ready!
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Actually...at the graduate level...the U.S. has the best education in engineering, math and science. To the point that the vast majority studying there are Japanese, Chinese, Indians, Pakistanies, Europeans...and a few Americans.SmoothTalker said:I guess that's the nail in the coffin for Americans that want to say they have a good education system for math and science..
Seriously though stuff like this does happen, everyone makes mistakes - though when you release figures publicly perhaps somebody should double check.
Good for the kid though.
And a bit scary for us, 1/450 are not very long odds for this sort of thing.
I remember when that post was first made. Ah, that takes me back.Francisco d'Anconia said:Someone get in touch with that kid and have him check this:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=51916
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
We actually have 4 different kind of high schools.Papermoon said:3. While it is always fun to talk about stupid Americans, don't underestimate your country. In germany, e.g., there is a system of 3 different kinds of highschool, only one leads to university. If you compare pupils from this school type, they will score higher then pupils from an average american highschool. But they will also score higher than the pupils from the other German types of schools.
And to think they have eliminated calculus in Ontario :crazy:. I wish the high school system was a bit tougher here. I find it stupid that parents here are up in arms because their kid has to spend an extra 15 minutes a day on homework. What's the big deal?SmoothTalker said:Latinoman, I know its good at the graduate level. But as you point out, most of the people that reach that level aren't American (same thing's going on in Canada), because up to high school and possibly even undergrad, its worthless.
I was more saying, a German kid knew enough math to figure this out when he's 13, even though this is pretty advanced stuff.
Its just worrisome when statistics say Canadian high schools are globally competitive, and then at the University level you start seeing all these foreign students that learned first and second year university math back when they were 15. We baby young people way too much in high school, if we want to compete in the world it's time we seriously taught some things.
There is a lot of focus on new teaching methods and pandering to different learning styles and all that jazz, but the bottom line is, extremely effective teaching isn't useful if there's no real material being taught.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.